Real Stories

  • Sandra’s Extraordinary Story

Looking Forward to a Brighter Reality

Sandra, from California, USA, is one of those finalists who has bravely conquered trauma from her early life and is on the successful path to living her dream and creating a better life for her family.

Overcoming Hardships

A sexual abuse survivor, Sandra was first molested at age nine. Then her father was deported, and Sandra’s mother abandoned her when she was 11. She was raped at age 13, which resulted in a pregnancy, and spent years in an abusive relationship. Yet this strong mother of four would not be defeated. Inspired by the academic advisors who have helped her navigate the higher education system, she is studying sociology and hopes to become an academic advisor. She looks forward to a brighter reality for herself and her children.

My dream is to earn a bachelor’s degree and eventually a masters in order to leave all these hardships behind. I want to show my children that even through all the messy obstacles it can be done, and goals can be reached.

Watch Sandra share her amazing story

Alma’s Extraordinary Story

Overcoming Sickness and Achieving a Career

Alma’s family immigrated to the United States when she was a child. She and grew up on a migrant farm, where her parents worked in the fields. Alma and her parents did not speak English, making it hard to communicate and integrate into their new country.

Alma dreams of completing a degree in child development, becoming a math teacher, and eventually earning a master’s degree.

Battling Illness

“As a child I had many dreams and aspired to reach every single one of them. However, life has many ways of reminding us that some dreams are harder to reach—and not just because my family faced harsh socio-economic struggles—but also because as a teenager, at the peak of my adolescence, I became quite ill.”

Alma contracted an aggressive kidney disease that plagued her for several years, and was bullied in high school for the visible side effects of the treatment. Despite her health challenges, Alma was still responsible for sustaining a family of six, by cooking and cleaning after school while her parents worked.

Determination and Strength

After graduating high school, Alma became pregnant with her daughter and was told that having the child had high risks because of Alma’s illness. The doctors warned the pregnancy could result in the death of her child or herself. Alma was determined to have her daughter, and fought to get stronger. This devotion to the well-being of her daughter continues to this day.

Alma is pursuing her education goals in order to create a better life for her daughter. “Overcoming all the obstacles life has set before me have reminded me of my dreams and how hard they can be to achieve.” Alma acknowledges the work and dedication needed to fulfill her dream, and her perseverance has her on the right path.

Overcoming Obstacles

Alma is already close to completing an associates of arts degree in child development. Along with work and school, she maintains a supportive and loving relationship with her daughter, and shows her goals can be accomplished despite obstacle.

Receiving these awards is a small testament to my ongoing fight in achieving a career so I can create a better life for my daughter.


Paula’s Extraordinary Story

Prevailing Over Poverty and Hardships

Paula was born in Sao Paulo, Brazil, in a very poor and violent household. After her father nearly beat her mother to death one night, Paula, her mom and two brothers finally fled—running from place to place for safety. By age 10, Paula was cooking, cleaning and caring for her siblings while her mother worked.

Fighting for Improvements

Paula had a voracious drive to learn, teaching herself to read at the age of 4. She went to public school up until she was 14, when she dropped out to work full-time. However, this did not mean Paula lost her ambition. She was a frequent visitor to the library, and fought for improvements in Brazilian schools.

After having her first child at the age of 20, Paula was determined to make a better life for her and her baby. “When I realized that I had become responsible for someone, I decided to go back to school. I was able to get my high school diploma. I wanted to be a doctor, but I didn’t believe I could pass the entrance exam and I would not be able to stop working because I had my young son to raise.”

Creating a Stable Home Environment

Her financial situation worsened, and she struggled to pay the rent in the slums. She and her son moved to another city in Brazil, where she focused on getting an education and creating a stable home environment.

Paula wanted nothing more than to study at medical school, and her never-ending persistence got her there. But it wasn’t easy. She worked hard to pay her way to a prep school to study for the medical school entrance exam, which she ultimately passed.

Paula continues to strive to reach her goals.

My dream is to become a good doctor and help other women understand the great value of their bodies and health.

Her main challenge is working at several jobs while also going to school. She has to survive and make ends meet, but the jobs take time away from classes and studying. “The Live Your Dream Awards will help me finish my internship and only focus on medicine in my last year, without worrying about bills and other external obligations.” Paula, no doubt, will succeed in achieving her dream.

Watch Paula share her amazing story

Live Your Dream Award Application

LOOKING FOR MONEY TO HELP SUPPORT YOUR
EDUCATIONAL GOALS?
 Are you a woman who provides primary financial support for yourself and your dependent(s)?
 Do you have financial need?
 Are you enrolled in a vocational/skills training program or an undergraduate degree program?
 Are you motivated to achieve your goals?

You may be eligible for a Soroptimist Live Your Dream Award to help offset tuition costs, pay student loans, or find reliable childcare so you can worry less about how to pay your bills and focus on reaching your dreams.
Soroptimist International, Chico will be awarding two Live Your Dream Awards in the amount of at least $1,000.00 each.  One winner is eligible for further awards at our regional and international levels, up to $10,000.00.
Click here to Apply and designate “SI Chico” on your on-line application.

Application portal opens August 1st

DUE by November 15th 

Presented by Soroptimist International, Chico, a global volunteer organization that economically empowers women and girls by providing access to education, the single most effective anti-poverty intervention.

Please contact our SI Chico Coordinator at:  liveyourdream@soroptimistchico.org  with any questions you may have.

Live Your Dreams Awards

THE SOROPTIMIST LIVE YOUR DREAM AWARDS – TENS OF THOUSANDS OF WOMEN ACHIEVING THEIR DREAMS

The Soroptimist Live Your Dream Awards assist women who provide the primary source of financial support for their families by giving them the resources they need to improve their education, skills and employment prospects.

Each year, almost $2 million in education grants are awarded to more than 1,200 women, many of whom have overcome enormous obstacles including poverty, domestic violence and/or drug and alcohol abuse. Live Your Dream Awards recipients may use the cash award to offset any costs associated with their efforts to attain higher education, such as books, childcare, tuition and transportation.

In addition to providing the primary financial support for their families, eligible applicants—residents of Soroptimist International of the Americas’ member countries and territories—must be enrolled in, or have been accepted to, a vocational/skills training program or an undergraduate degree program and must demonstrate financial need.

Since the Live Your Dream Awards program began in 1972, about $30 million in education grants have been disbursed to assist tens of thousands of women achieve their dreams of a better life for themselves and their families. In 2007, the program received the Associations Advance America Summit Award—ASAE & The Center for Association Leadership’s highest level of recognition. Like so many Soroptimist Live Your Dream Award recipients, the 2016 finalists have faced unimaginable obstacles. They’ve endured darkness and heartache beyond belief. But despite the inconceivable challenges that would knock most down for good, these women have risen, embodying the true meaning of strength and perseverance.

EACH IS A WARRIOR FIGHTING FOR THE DREAM OF A BRIGHTER FUTURE

Though they are on separate journeys in different parts of the world, their courage and unconquerable spirits connect them. Their inspiring stories serve as a reminder of just how much women can achieve with just a little bit of help.

In 2016, Soroptimist of the Americas was honoured to award $10,000 to three passionate, hard-working, strong women: Terriea, Sandra and Esperanza* (not her real name for safety reasons).

HERE IS TERRIEA’S STORY

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Like many indigenous children in her part of Canada, Terriea Wadud of Vancouver was adopted at a young age. Physically and emotionally abused by her adoptive mother, Terriea was placed back into the child welfare system at the age of 12.

“I seemed to take on the role of the hero among the girls,” Terriea recalls. “If a girl was getting picked on, I would ‘protect’ her by any means, including being abusive with my language and physically threatening the instigator. When this became too much, I would run away to the streets of Toronto.”

A pretty girl with low self-esteem alone on the streets, Terriea was an ideal target for pimps and was trafficked in the sex trade across Ontario. Police searched relentlessly for her, and after a brutal beating by her pimp, they met up with Terriea at the hospital and asked whether she was ready to charge him. Terriea, who had just learned she was pregnant with her pimp’s child, agreed.

At just 16 years old and 8 months pregnant, she testified against her pimp. Portrayed viciously by his lawyer, Terriea’s calm and honest testimony paid off and Terriea’s pimp received six and a half years of jail time.

When her daughter was born, Terriea vowed not to be anything like her adoptive mother, but her traumatic past made being a good mother difficult. She admits checking out emotionally, and sometimes physically, as a parent feeling suicidal and turning to drugs and alcohol to numb her pain. With no formal education she wasn’t able to secure employment, so she remained in the sex industry as an exotic dancer.

Image Courtesy of Soroptimist International of the America's Live Your Dream Awards
Image Courtesy of Soroptimist International of the America’s Live Your Dream Awards

At age 24, Terriea says she just couldn’t feel her worth. But then an opportunity presented itself and became the first step in turning her life around. She completed a university-entrance program called the Transitional Year at the University of Toronto. Terriea continued with a life-changing volunteer training program at Battered Women’s Support Services, where she was eventually hired as an outreach counselor and then the manager of a women’s safety and outreach program.

Supporting women and girls with similar traumatic histories and experiences of violence and abuse has helped Terriea heal her own traumatic past. Her ability to create and hold a safe space for women to share, counsel and explore problem-solving solutions has ignited her passion to pursue formal counselor training.

But just when things seemed to be getting on track, the program lost funding and Terriea was laid off. At the same time, she went through a painful personal tragedy and she and her children found themselves homeless. Rather than letting these obstacles send her into a downward spiral, Terriea took up meditation and chanting to move through her feelings. She also reconnected with her birth mother, which has helped her learn about her indigenous culture and spirituality, and brings her great comfort. Now staying with friends, Terriea says she is determined to heal this cycle. She has accepted a temporary position with her previous employer, and is hopeful that it will lead to a full-time job.

The Live Your Dream Awards mean stability for Terriea and her family. She is using the awards to pay for her tuition, so that no matter what this next year has in store, she will not have to put her schooling on hold for financial reasons.

Terriea’s dream is to eventually start her own counseling/life coaching business.

“My prayers look a lot different today than when I was a little girl. There were many times being exploited on the streets or in my addiction I thought I was going to die and I didn’t care,” she said. “Now I have a purpose. I will continue to create a safe space for others to do their healing and transformational work. I will use my voice to share my story to inspire others to do the same. The Live Your Dream Awards will help me to further my growth, accountability and commitment to be a transformational agent and end this cycle for my family!”

Read more about the 2016 Live Your Dream Award Winners by clicking on this link.

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